Tuesday, January 21, 2014 | By: Lisa LaMendola

Narrow Minded Munchkins

I had no idea what to title this blog, but narrow minded munchkins seemed somewhat polite.

Narrow minded people are selfish, self centered, egotistical, overly focused on things that don't really matter in the grand scheme of things, and are lonely and/or depressed. 

Wondering why they would be lonely or depressed when they think the world revolves around them?!  Who wants to be around that all the time?!  There true friends don't know who they really are, only what they want them to see.  How can you have all the drama in your life and feel good about all the drama when someone can see you for who you really are?   Besides, all the drama queens drag around the negative energy with them wherever they go, and who wants to be surrounded by that all the time?

If your thinking "another drama queen" think again.  You can't compete with another drama queen and win so that is why they suck the life out of the truly empathic and stay inside their own little world.  

Negative people are like psychic vampires, draining every bit of energy you have just so they can feel better about themselves.....so they don't have to change themselves and actually BE a better human being in this world.  These are the people who keep our world stuck in neutral.  No positive progress being made.  They are part if the problem and not part of the solution.

Does this sound like you?  If it does ask yourself just one question:  WHY DON'T I RESPECT MYSELF?  Because there in lies the problem.  Not just that you have no respect for others ~ this is obvious ~ but why you lack respect for yourself?  Where did that come from?  And please don't blame it in your mother, father, sister, brother or aunt!  That may be where it all started but  YOU must decide to love and respect yourself on a SOUL level before anyone else will even think about respecting you.  When you love yourself with your heart (and not your head) there is no room for the negative aspect of the ego to exist.  

I hear so many excuses about why someone doesn't do something to help themselves and the only real answer is that they DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO!  So when will you actually slow down enough to care?!  That's what highly negative people do.....They busy themselves!  They "have" to do this or that when in reality they do not, they just like to tell themselves that in order to feel important....even if it is only in their own mind.

I have had way too many negative people in my life....that is what boundaries are for and soon I will have a better grasp on all the negative people in my life.  Some have even asked me for help and they do try.....for only a short time.... because to change would take great effort and their ego is being stroked so well why should they change?!!!

This saddens me....for these people will never see the big picture of life.  What this incarnation is all about.  Why we should care about what we do, say or think and what changing can do to the progression of the soul, not to mention the flow I'd life. Lets not forget to mention the connection we all have and how your negativity affect my personal growth as well.

These are also the people who believe they will never live again.  They say its their last lifetime and all I can do is laugh. Laugh at the ignorance they project.  For if they only knew a glimpse of what I knew they would never cross the door of the negative ego again.



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